Shirley Fehr Messenlehner, 87 formerly of Easton, PA died Tuesday, October 29, 2024 at Seneca View in Montour Falls, NY. Born November 4, 1936 in Palmerton, PA she was the daughter of the late Maria (Elliott) and Elmer Miller. She graduated from Wilson High School in 1954 and attended her 70th class reunion last year. She was employed by Dr. Dominick J. Raso for more than 30 years before retiring. Shirley was a member of St. Andrew’s Lutheran Church and was predeceased by husbands: Paul L. Fehr Jr. and Robert R. Messenlehner.
Shirley loved spending several months during the year in Bonita Springs, Florida, enjoying the warmth and sun for many years. She also was a member of the Red Hat Society, loved going to the Northampton County Senior Center in Forks Township, and enjoyed playing bingo and card games.
She is survived by 2 daughters: Linda Restivo (husband Glenn) of Burdett, NY and Joanne Thomas (husband Scott) of New Braunfels, TX; 2 stepsons: Randy Messenlehner (wife Darla) and Rick Messenlehner; grandchildren: James Young (wife Colleen), Lauren Seckington (husband Ryan), Brad Thomas, Britney Kempf (husband Bobby), Amanda Restivo and Adam Messenlehner (wife Maggie); and several great-grandchildren.
Services are 10:30 AM Thursday (Nov. 7) in the Ashton Funeral Home, 1337 Northampton St., Easton, PA with a calling period from 9:30 to 10:30 AM. Interment in Northampton Memorial Shrine. Memorial contributions may be made to the Alzheimer’s Association of Rochester and the Finger Lakes Region either on-line at https://www.alz.org/rochesterny via the “yellow square donate button.” OR mailed to 200 Meridian Centre Blvd., Suite 110 Rochester, N.Y. 14618. Offer online condolences at www.AshtonFuneralHome.com.
Cindy & Dent Follweiler
November 3, 2024 at 9:32 pm
Linda & family,
You are in our thoughts and prayers as you walk through this difficult time. Linda, you and Glenn were always looking out for your mom, giving her such good care. Shirley was also very blessed by her grandchildren’s love and care. We will always remember playing games with her and her competitive nature. She will be missed. Till we see you again Shirley, may you rest in peace.
John M Konwinski
November 4, 2024 at 10:09 am
Dear Randy, Darla, Rick and Shirley Messenlehner family,
I offer sincere condolences to you and your family on the death of Shirley. I’ve known her since 2004 when I purchased a home next door to her, here in Bonita Springs, Florida. She was a wonderful neighbor and friend.
John Michael Konwinski
Kevin McKelvey
November 5, 2024 at 2:14 pm
Randy, so sorry to hear about your stepmom’s passing. My prayers are with you and your family during this sad time.